si es un objeto calendar
m1=objeto calendar
Private Sub M1_DateSelected(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.Windows.Forms.DateRangeEventArgs) Handles M1.DateSelected
Dim j As String
j = M1.SelectionStart
MsgBox(j)
End Sub
si utilizas un onbeto datatimepicker
Private Sub DateTimePicker1_CloseUp(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles DateTimePicker1.CloseUp